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Started by Doreen, 13 Sep, 2019, 05:04:08 PM

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Doreen

Alright, I'm gonna own up and say, I just don't get it.
Sam Smith, the singer, has said he doesn't want to be referred to as 'they' instead of 'he'.
In the past he has said he doesn't identify to male or female.

Do you have to be on a certain type of drug to get this stuff ?????

Drax

It's probably something that happens when you give an amoeba a microphone  :dunno:

AnnieM

Quote from: Doreen on 13 Sep, 2019, 05:04:08 PM
Alright, I'm gonna own up and say, I just don't get it.
Sam Smith, the singer, has said he doesn't want to be referred to as 'they' instead of 'he'.
In the past he has said he doesn't identify to male or female.

Do you have to be on a certain type of drug to get this stuff ?????

So, what does he identify with?  :shocked: :undecided:

Stacey Steele

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I thought he said he didn't want to be called He or Him but They or Them
as he is gender non Binary. He says he feels neither male or female. So I suppose he can dress as a male one day and more feminine the next.
Up to him really as long as he's happy. Still  a good singer though. IMHO
If you read the whole story he says he's has never been happy as a male and wanders between masculine and feminine. On days he feels himself he goes into depression and has contemplated suicide on several occasions.
So as long as it's not hurting anyone I feel he can please himself and that he is very brave to open up and be able to talk about his feelings. No I am not on drugs just trying to understand topics that were always taboo.

Doreen

It was just a joke Stacey, I didn't mean anyone understanding it is on drugs. Just light hearted banter.

Also you made a good point. 👏🏼

Raymondo

Gendar non Binary ????🙉   Had to Google it and Sam Smith .   
What next ???
Bring back the sixties , Flower power ,  Hippies , Free love , mud filled Festivals ,Minis  , great Pop Groups and the nearest we got to a binary was a fender bender. !!
This is  also  light hearted banter  before anyone gets  exercised.
Happy Sunday in the Sun.
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knowall

Once upon a time this was recognised as a mental problem, but now it's all mixed up in LGBTQ+XYZ and we mustn't tread on anyone's human rights to identify as whatever they want.
Just another symptom of the world becoming psychotic.  :huh: